Im having some trouble with my head lights. After I lowered the car. The lights started going out on me. Its either one light usually the driver side. But Recently I noticed that both of the lights go out if I hit a pot hole or a bump on the road. I lowered the car on bilsten sports and vogtlands springs. Im thinking of changing the spring pads and putting different 17 inch rims. It might help? Or what else I was think something in the wiring might be loose?

one thing for sure is that your car got way stiffer.
try to avoid hitting potholes, these will kill your alignment/rims-tires/suspension

Sounds you also have some faulty electrical connections in the wiring. With my KW suspension set-up, if I hit a pothole which I didn't see, the lights shake/judder a bit but do not extinguish.