even though i sold the car I did get the problem fixed. the problem was.....drum roll please........it was low on transmission fluid. yes, it took them that long to figure that out. I was getting the run around buy the dealership by my place so i decided to go across town to the other dealership and they figured it out in 2 hours
I cant wait to go back to the original dealer and tell them how bad they are at diagnosing c63 amg's. needless to say, for those of you that know about all the problems ive had with that dealership.....they are fired!!