so this has been happening the last few days...i lock my car...30 mins later the foglights and t-lights just flash on their own...i have to unlock and lock to make it stop...dealer can't take me in until 2 weeks...don't want my battery to die...any suggestions ?

Remove the fuses or disconnect the foglight connectors.

any idea what might be causing this or how to fix it...its the tail-lights as well.....

I didn't know the tail light too then don't pull the fuses for the tail light because you need the tail light to drive at night. look to me like it your alarm system. Just for now, don't set the alarm to turn on by itself. Go through your cluster to turn off these feature. And also try not to lock your car with the remote and just use your car key to lock your doors. Just a thought.