There have been several threads on various forums over the years asking the same question as you with no resolution. The phone connection to the amp should be over the D2B fiber network. Phone cradle to the PSE, fiber connection from the PSE to the amp. The phone does not connect directly to the speakers. If your car came equipped with a phone, and the cradle is no longer there, I would assume the PO removed the PSE as well. The 00-02 models came pre-wired for phone to make it easier and cost effective for the dealer to add a phone, but without the PSE the connection in your console is a dead end. Then there are the inherent design limitations. This connection is designed specifically for use with a phone. If you could splice in an iPod would the system recognize the device, or would you get the No Phone error message. When this system is retrofitted with a Bluetooth module, it can't stream music, only phone calls. I know this does not answer your question, but may explain why there are no solid resolutions. Most end up going the aux route using the cassette player, or by directly soldering an aux cable to the head unit. Both of these solutions are well documented. There are also "gateway" options that use the fiber connection from the cd changer, but these are not inexpensive solutions, and require running cable from the trunk to the console. Sorry I can't be of more help.
Last edited by RichM; Apr 14, 2014 at 05:54 PM.