Battery Control Module A2305401045
I am brand new to this site, and desperately need some help. I have a 2008 Mercedes SL550 convertible. Recently the red battery indicator light came on/off sporadically, then finally came on and stayed on. I took the car to locate Advance Auto, who said battery was fine, but the alternator was only charging at about 12.8 instead of more than 14. I purchased a new aftermarket alternator and belt, took it to my local Mercedes dealer to have them install it. They called and said the battery and alternator was fine, but the battery control Module A2305401045 was bad. Further, they said the part was no longer available, and they offered no solutions. I found one on Ebay for $1500which matched exactly what I need, but the dealer says the BCM is "VIN specific". They said they could only program the used BCM if it was wiped clean, and my used BCM is not wiped clean. Dealer says they have no way to wipe it clean. They recommended I find an online hacker, which sounds shady. I have not returned the used BCM yet. Any suggestions would be very helpful.
FYI, I am not a mechanic, nor do we have any savvy Mercedes/import locations other than the one Mercedes dealership in WV. Right now the car will start and function fine, except the red warning light being constantly on. HELP!