Bummed out
Plus, it seems like whatever dealership you are dealing with does not care about answering your questions.
If that's the case (and for sure you can ask the dealer to pay for it - shouldn't be more than $1K anyway), you can then ask the dealer to repaint it to make it match and lower the price (let's say $35K?). If the dealer refuses the deal, then return it and walk away (I would still ask for a compensation, though.... waste your time, waste your energy, waste your money).
So at the end of the day, you have a perfectly fixed car and got it cheap. If you still cannot live with it, then sell it for profit

My Maxima was sideswiped when it was parked..... unfortunately, the damage was severe enough so the body shop replaced the shell but light enough so nothing behind the shell was screwed.... so if this is the case w/ your car, I don't think you need to over worry about it.
Again, if everything that I mentioned above is Ok and the dealer pays for repainting those panels it is still a good deal.
Anyway, I feel your pain..



