Can the glow plug relay drain the battery?

I have an unusual problem that I wasn't sure how to search for.
My car was behaving perfectly fine until the weather turned cold in Seattle. Then it was clear that my glow plugs were out. The glow plug light stopped working (intermittently) and the car wouldn't start. The car sat for about a week while I waited for parts to come in.
I went ahead and switched out the GPs and the GP relay today. The first time I started the car, the dash GP light came on and turned off as expected, and the car started right up.
I left the car to sit for a few hours, then when I went to drive it home tonight, it started up, but I noticed that the dash lights and headlights were dimming. I remembered that I didn't tighten the battery connections, so I pulled over and tightened them, thinking that was the problem. Then when I tried to start the car again, it wouldn't start.
I had to have the car jumped for it to start. While connected to the other battery, the GP lights came on and it started right up again. However, when I turn the car off, the process starts all over again.
The odd thing is that all the electrical systems work fine until I turn the key to engage the glow plugs. Then the lights dim and the buzzer slowly fades in volume.
Could the glow plug relay be the cause of the problem? I was thinking it might be faulty because it seems like it is draining the battery as soon as I turn the key.
Any replies would be highly appreciated, and if this has been covered, I'd love to be directed to the applicable thread.
Thanks!
Looks like your charging system may be the culprit.
Don't go to the dealer

I have a guy in the northend that can redo the alt. and if you need a shop to install if you don't diy I have a buddy with a shop just south of you.
I'm to busy with my own cars(putting a small block chevy and 5speed into one of a handful built in 1968 200D fintails)) this winter or I would have you come up north to Mill Creek.
Repair Links
http://www.peachparts.com/shopforum/forumdisplay.php?f=82
http://www.peachparts.com/Wikka/DoItYourSelf
It is possible for an defective Glow Plug relay to Drain the Battery. If you still have the Old Relay I would try istalling that and see if it cures the prolem. Unless you know for sure your old Relay as no good.



