Keep 2008 ML320cdi, or get 2011 ML350 Bluetec or new Honda CRV
This happened several more times, so I took it to a non-Mercedes but European specialized shop that was well rated, and geographically convenient. They diagnosed a clogged oxygen valve (OK, full disclosure, I'm not a car person), which cost over $700 to replace because they had to remove the engine to get to it.
A couple of weeks after the repair, it happened again. and again. The last time the scary "OVERHEATED PULL OVER IMMEDIATELY!!!" light came on. I limped to a gas station, added coolant, limped home. Back to service station. They couldn't find anything with computer, but we replaced coolant overflow tank cap (possible leak), did a regular oil change, etc. and they found a cracked turbo cover, which they replaced "for free".
Drove from Seattle to Eugene OR and back to Portland on Monday, no problem. Tuesday, heading uphill on I-5 back to Seattle, squeaking noise, then no power, then "OVERHEATING". Coolant overflow boiling, radiator stone cold. Flatbed back to dealer in Seattle.
24 hours later the service coordinator says they can't find anything wrong with the car. REALLY!?!?!?!?! So the lead tech drove it home and back. No problems found. Now they are recommending new thermostat and belt. $773+.
Dealer also pitched me on a 2011 ML350 Bluetec with 32K miles for 43,888, and offered $24000 on my 320, which has 60K. Fix or trade up for $20K? The decision is urgent because a deer fell out of the sky and totaled our other car...2001 S500 with 50K

What's the best choice? I need a reliable car, as my husband works overseas, and I HATE dealing with car issues on my own. Maybe a new HONDA CRV for about the same price as the used 350? ARGH!
Personally not a Honda fan, so can't advise there.
I concur with dgturbo as it appears that the first shop did something wrong.
Trade up to the new-er ML. It does not sound like a bad deal but you may have some room for negotiation on that price.
Good luck and keep us posted.
Pull the engine for $700? Thats a screaming fantastic bargain! More like a $7000 job. I think you have been B.S.'ed.
If you like the Honda, get it! Lexus also makes a very nice car. My boss is threatening to trade her BMW for either a Honda Crosstour or a newer Toyota Avalon. Your business is Mercedes-Benz's to lose.
If you are going to trade then go shopping. Drive one of everything even those you "know" you don't want. A year or three from now driving whatever you select you will remember the ones you didn't buy and remember why you made the selection you did.
I park a Prius between my ML and Porsche 928S. Its different. And I like it also too.



