Just a quick followup. I reinstalled my Y-pipe with the original band clamps, making sure all three were nice and tight. After a couple of drives, I heard a little whistle under full throttle acceleration. Well, I knew full well that wasn't right. I checked under the hood, and sure enough the band clamp on the throttle body was loose. Really loose, like rattling around loose. My theory is that, given the angle and the fact that you can only see half of the throttle body connection, I had the "back half" of the band (rear of the pipe, bottom side where you can't see it) not in the groove, but on the lip of the pipe. After a couple of thermal cycles it slipped into the groove, where of course it does no good if it's not tight.
I took up the slack and re-tightened it, so now I know for sure it's in the groove. It hasn't come loose since then, so I think I figured out how it happened. I also very much think that's what happened back in 2019, when it blew off the TB and left me with no boost and eventually split. So... make sure you check those band clamps and make sure they're actually in the proper place all the way around.